canadians stop commenting on posts like you aint fuckin kill ya native population
brits stop commenting on posts like you aint colonize and enslave like 90% of the globe bc this shit is essentially your fault if you wanna be fuckin real
Like seriously, why isn’t pole dancing an olympic sport? This is freakin gymnastics. This is strength and skill. This is not sexual whatsoever. Why does pole dancing have to be so stigmatised as a sexual thing that only strippers do? I have great respect for all people who can pull this off. This is art and beauty right here.
HEY FUN FACT: pole dancing is known as something strippers do because strippers invented it. And that’s okay! It’s okay to have respect for strippers and the hard work they put into what they do! Let’s stop trying to take the stripper part out of pole dancing so upperclass white girls can do it without being ~stigmatized~ because god forbid women be sexual.
If it actually started raining men I think I’d just start crying and be really terrified and not leave my house and just curl up into a ball and pretend I couldn’t hear the slamming of bodies falling upon my roof under no circumstances would I think “hallelujah”
it’s a cold and it’s a broken hallelujah
straight people are so weird every time two queer people are near each other theyre like ARE YOU DATING and everytime a boy and a girl are near each other theyre like ARE YOU DATING and every time two genderless void creatures from The Beyond are near each other theyre like ARE Y
this just in: im cute
she’s looking on the mirror and she damn well knows that white girl is behind her
Perks of dating me: I’ll let you sleep on my boobs
where i work we rent out a variety of buildings and to make a long story short i’m going to hell
That last post I reblogged reminded me of a thing I wanted to share. I was going to reblog the post and add this but I felt that it warranted its own post. My therapist taught me some ways to get past being stuck on negative thoughts like “I’m stupid” and such. If you’re getting stuck on negative thoughts ask yourself these questions
- How does this thought help? How is it harmful?
- How would someone close to you react to hearing this thought?
- How would you react if someone had the same thought?
- Is this thought a fact, or is it a belief?
- Are you 100% sure that this thought is true?
- What evidence is there to prove this thought? What evidence is there to disprove it?
- What’s a better way to reword this thought so that it isn’t harmful? (for the “I’m stupid and uneducated” something like “I didn’t know a lot about this thing but now I know that I can correct it)
- If the thought is true, what is the worst that can happen?
- If the worst does happen, how can you fix it?
Going through these can help a lot, especially if you deal with anxiety or depression, or any other disorder, and even if you don’t. When you get stuck on negative thoughts sometimes all you need to do is break out of the cycle and start thinking in a way that is more productive. I hope this helps someone out there! <3
hey guys. i’m seeing a lot of posts full of self-flagellating phrases like “i am stupid and uneducated” and that kind of thing, and i need you to know that no one is “stupid” for not spotting harmful behavior, or for seeking guidance in developing personal politics, or for trusting someone who seemed trustworthy. this is not your fault, it does not invalidate your politics or your identity. please take care of yourselves.